The cancer journey brings about many overwhelming feelings. Many thoughts may go through your mind when you hear, “You have cancer and you need to be seen by an oncologist.” You may wonder how this will impact you, your family, and your friends. The possible anxiety caused by wondering what the oncologist will tell you at the appointment and which decisions you will have to make may take over your thinking. You may have trouble listening, understanding, or remembering what anyone is telling you during this time due to the very normal distress, uncertainty, fear, and anger you may be feeling.
Having a better understanding of what to expect, what to take with you, and which questions to ask at your first oncologist’s appointment may help you better prepare and lessen the anxiety.
Get the logistics clear
Before your first appointment, make sure you know the answers to these questions. Although they seem obvious, it can be easy to overlook these details when you’re worried about your diagnosis:
- What is the full name of the oncologist I will be seeing?
- Does the oncologist take my insurance? What will I be expected to pay on the first visit?